Fear of being Judged

 We sometimes fear to say anything to others. We all reach at that stage of life where being judge based on our activities and words became a great fear. No matter what good deed you do there will be millions of people to criticize you. At the same time there will be number of people supporting you.

Taking about people judgement and commitments I remembered a story that I have heard when I was small. It was about a old farmer and his son who were walking to village with a donkey. A man passing by them said how stupid they are, instead of riding they are walking along with donkey. Hearing this the son rode the donkey and the father began to walk. Again stepping some steps ahead, some people said that the young boy is riding and the old man is walking. Then the son get off and the father rode the donkey. After crossing certain path people started saying the poor boy is walking and the man is alone enjoying the ride. Now, both of them ride the donkey together. But people did not stop at this. They again passed their comments and said poor donkey. How could he bear two people's weight. Instead of riding they should carry the donkey. Now hearing this the boy and his father tie the donkey to long strong stick and began to carry but the donkey fell and died.

So, what the moral is listen to everyone but do what you really wanna do. But sometimes it becomes really difficult to pick up a decision at that time relax and think with a cool mind. You can even take suggestions from your trustable person. 

Judgement is never going to end up. It is just like a society rule that everyone follows. All of us are judgmental. Judgement is not always bad. It helps people improving them even more. But we sometimes fall in this trap and get depressed. Many people commit suicide not being able to handle all those societies pressure. But this fear should not be too high that we lose our self-confidence. Everyone are there to judge you but you should be focused . You should believe that your work is good. It will never against humanity. Then do whatever you want because history is created by those who listen everyone's but follows their own. At the end everyone will praise your work.

So if you are worried what people will say, what society will think then just stop it. This life is one time opportunity. Do What you actually wanna do but never carry a guilt of your work. If you are right then everything is going to be right. Remember, always put humanity on top then follow your passion and let world know you by your works.